Anonymous | Author
I've many problem in my relationship how to overcome that he is kinda rude he talks to a lady which I don't like etc.. how to trust and overcome all this I keep on crying everyday bunk my classes I've exams this week and no concentration and interest
2024-08-05 15:37:27

Malvika Vinod | Listener
I'm really sorry to hear you're going through such a tough time. It's important to acknowledge your feelings and recognize that they are valid. Start by having an open and honest conversation with your partner about how his actions are affecting you. Express your concerns without blaming or accusing, using "I" statements to share your feelings. If trust is an issue, consider discussing boundaries that make both of you feel comfortable. Additionally, prioritize self-care and try to find small moments of peace and joy each day. Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor can provide support and perspective. Remember, your well-being is crucial, especially with exams coming up, so try to take small steps to manage your stress, like setting aside study times and taking breaks to recharge. You deserve to feel respected and cared for in your relationship and life.
2024-08-05 21:50:19

Vidushi Gupta | Listener
If he is rude with and mistreating you then it's a red flag girl, maintain a healthy tolerance limit for rude behaviour and any mistreatment . See understanding and trust is a mutual thing, you can't expect him to be understanding when you clearly being a brat and not understanding his perspective, similarly he can't expect you to trust him when he clearly not doing anything to earn it. For your studies, ruining your future for anyone is not worth it because ultimately you don't whether he is going to stay or leave, only your studies and hardwork will help you to be in better place in future. Your situation seems tough you better confront him and observe his reaction, if he fails makes you feel secure then he is not worth it . A guy who can't even make his girl feel secure then you deserve better girl.
2024-08-05 22:16:12

Vandana Sharma | Counselling Psychologist
Dear one, Relationships needs certain way to handle. Crying and being anxious will only damage your health. What is your age? Please come forward for sessions, you can feel the improvement in your health and relationship as well
2024-08-06 09:34:30

Samiksha Gandhi | Counselling Psychologist
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. As a psychologist, here are some steps from my end: Prioritize Self-Care: Take time for activities that you enjoy and that help you relax. This can include exercise, hobbies, or spending time with supportive friends and family.Communication: Try to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how you feel. Use "I" statements to express your feelings without blaming them (e.g., "I feel hurt when...").Clearly communicate your boundaries to your partner. Let them know what behaviors are unacceptable and how they affect you.If you're find it hard to cope, consider speaking with us we can provide you a safe space to explore your feelings and offer coping strategiesRemember that it's important to take care of yourself first. Your mental and emotional well-being is crucial, especially during stressful times like exams. If the relationship is causing significant distress and affecting your dai
2024-08-07 16:24:22

Uma | Counselling Psychologist
Dear, you need to over come this stressful situation, as I guess you are in the student age and it is necessary to consult a counseling Psychologist ASAP. Career is very important and your focus should be on that. You can contact us and book an Video call appointment and the n we can discuss it out with some concrete solution.
2024-08-10 19:48:55

Sajili Batra | Counselling Psychologist
Hi. I understand your concern but who is the lady here? Do not cry and express your feelings towards him . Did you confront him about you not liking him talk to that particular lady ?
2024-08-18 02:47:38

Dr Shalini Gupta | Counselling Psychologist
Dont bunk your classes.You talk to me I will help you to come out from this situation
2024-08-25 19:01:12

Dr Sapna Zarwal | Counselling Psychologist
First, focus on yourself.If you will be fine, you'll be able to face your challenges in your life and in relationship as well.Work on yourself.Want to work on your relationship?Please consult relationship therapist.Definitely they will help you
2024-08-28 08:41:19